Today, Mom had an appointment to have an MRI done. I have been anxious for this test because it has taken Mom's HMO insurance three weeks to finally get her pre-authorization approved. Sometimes, it is difficult to take Mom to her appointments, she usually gets upset with me for scheduling them without her prior knowledge. Of course, Mom loves to proclaim to everyone she crosses path with in waiting room, doctor's office, or clinic, that she is fine and nothing hurts. She gets loud and abrasive as she becomes agitated knowing I've scheduled an appointment without her consent. It has gotten to the point that I just ignore her behavior and quietly continue completing her insurance forms. Mom's hands are crippled with arthritis so she has difficulty signing her name. She detest having to sign more than one form, which is usually the case at any doctor's visit.
When Mom was called to the back to prepare for her MRI test, I went along to help her disrobe. Again, she complained about having to disrobe entirely as well as taking off her jewelry. I patiently explained it is common procedure. As Mom has her test, I wait in the waiting room.
I make small chat with the receptionist regarding USAA and Mom's condition. She said that her boyfriend just got hired at USAA. She also told me that my mom is very cute and I am very patient with her. A security officer comes into the room. His name is J. Lopez and we make small conversation, mostly about USAA. His son works there too. After her test, I return to the back to assist her in getting dress. She is excited to leave and ready to go to dinner.
As we exit the office, the security officer approaches my mom and reaches out to greet her with a hug and kiss on the cheek. He tells her that he will be praying for her and blessed her several times. He tells mother in Spanglish to "be nice to your daughter because she has a good heart, she is a good daughter for taking care of you and she loves you very much." Mom and I thanked him for his kind words.
I do not think this man knew how he truly touched my heart with his loving words. Not only did his words have true meaning to me but they brought tears to my eyes. This man knew without me ever saying a word to him about my mom's condition. I truly believe that all things happen for a reason. I believe God sent an angel in disguise to comfort me today, just when I needed it most.
Thank you Lord!
